Women are not the only nervous party on a first date. Men also get the nerves most especially if they are dating a girl that they have been interested in for the first time. Here are the ultimate tips for men if you want to get the interest of you date. Check it out and live by it.
1. Send little sexual tension
Ladies tend to be interested in a guy who can attract them sexually but in a subtle way. Put in mind that if you come in too strong, you will give her the creeps and she will stay as far as she can from you.
2. No phones
It is a basic rule. If the girl sees you checking out your phone from time to time, that will send a message that you are not interested in her. Focus your attention with your date. Be present physically and mentally.
3. Keep a little mystery
If you fancy seeing the girl again, leave something that will keep her thinking. You can share things about you but don’t pour it all. If you do that, there will be nothing left for her to discover. It means there is no more reason for her to see you again.
4. Make her want more
It is still part of the mystery. You end the date, not her. Show regret that the date has to end but make sure you do it the right way. Don’t forget to send her home as well. Make sure to leave her wanting more from you. You can also kiss her but make sure just to give her a peck on the cheeks.
If you can follow these four great tips, there is no doubt that the lady you are dating will be interested in getting to know more of you.
In our lives, we will meet a lot of guys. We will have our fair share of dating experiences. Before you think of getting serious all the way, check these out first. Here are the types of guys that women should date at least once in your life because it can give you a lot of lessons in life.
1. Your exact opposite
We have all heard the saying opposite attracts. If you date someone who is the total opposite of you, it will be an eye opener. You will get to see a different perspective outside of all the things you believed in. It is also a great opportunity so you can accept and respect the opinions of people.
2. Adventure driven guy
The best thing about dating men who are inclined on doing extreme or adventurous sports is that you will have the opportunity to experience what you wouldn’t normally do. Let’s take surfing for example. You date a surfer, and for sure, you’ll spend a considerable amount of time in the water. It is an experience that cannot be taken away even if you go on separate ways.
3. A Jerk
Come on ladies. It will be a fun experience to date a jerk. I mean date and not settle down. There’s a big difference with that. Dating these type of guys will let you appreciate yourself even more. You will discover your worth because of the things that will be done by the jerk. Also, you will get the bragging rights to kick some ass once you are ready to call it quits.
If these top three guys are not yet on the list of the guys you have dated, time to make a move and learn some life lessons. You won’t have a problem looking for them because they are easy to spot.
The biggest worry for girls who are going out on a date is if the guy is interested in them. Of course, we can’t be too sure. However, there are some stuff that you can check, to see if the guy you are eyeing is interested with you. Check out these sure signs that will give the guys away.
1. He completed the date
If the two of you were able to finish the date, it is a good sign that you have the chemistry. If a guy thinks that you are that bad, he will surely find a way to cut the date too short so he can get out of there the soonest possible time.
2. Alone time
Be cautious if suddenly the guy you are dating tells you that some of his friends are nearby and wants to drop by. It is his way to get you out of the picture. The possible reason is that you might be a little boring for him.
3. Date Extension
After a sumptuous meal and the guy asked if you would be interested in taking a walk with him or do something else, flip your hair because it is a sign that he is into you. He wants to spend more time, and that is the reason why he wants to extend the date.
4. Second date suggestion
Guys are naturally hard headed. If they don’t want you, there is no way to convince them to get a second a date. If a man suggests a second date even in the middle of a conversation, it is one good sign that he is into you.
Look out for these signs. If you see these, it’s good for you. It’s just that things don’t turn out like what we expect all the time. If the guy is not someone who is interested in you, it’s no big deal. Move on to the next date.